3. When you think of your mother (or grandmother) cleaning, what do you see her doing?
My mom cleaned the kitchen counters and cupboard doors rather meticulously. She'd use a scrubbing sponge to start, wipe the big crumbs and things into her hand and then empty them into the in-sink-erator. (Funny, it only occurs to me just now that "in-sink-erator" is a play on "incinerator," whereas I'd always thought that an "erator" was the generic name for some sort of grinding tool, and that in-sink just qualified it.) Anyway, then she'd use the scrubber to get at some of the finer bits of dirt that were stuck to the counter, and if necessary would scrape at them with her fingernail. Finally, she'd wipe the counter down with the soft side of the sponge. There was a slightly anxious quality to this particular kind of cleaning, it seemed to me, and I don't think she liked it that much; she did seem to find some satisfaction in cleaning the dishes, however.
Paul
Brooklyn, NY, USA