3. When you think of your mother (or grandmother) cleaning, what do you see her doing?
I remember my mom going down on her knees and scrubbing the floor of every room in the house with damp cloths by herself. Having five kids to look after, she had a lot of housework to do from morning ’til night. And as cleaning was the last chore of the day, she always looked tired and got nervous. Although mom is a very cheerful person and the anchor of my family, so much household work often frustrated her physically and emotionally. One day at night, she sang a Korean popular song to cheer herself up while cleaning. But her cheerful voice tone changed slowly into a depressed one and she finally stopped singing and burst into crying. Though I was a young boy, I felt guilty and sorry for her agony. But she thought housekeeping was just for women and never let me help her. Korea had a strong tradition of preferring sons to daughters at that time.
Jungmin
Seoul, Korea